Graduation has come and gone in a flash. I’m torn on whether I’m resentful or amused that it rained during graduation and the microphone shorted out. Something about it is uniquely Oglethorpe. š
Some people asked me to upload a transcript of my speech, so I have included it below. My family messed up with the camera during my actual delivery (probably because it started downpouring), so if anyone has a recording of the actual delivery on graduation day, I would be very appreciative if you could find a way to make me a copy–that is, unless it was painful to listen to.
Here’s my transcript–please pardon any typos, as it was originally just for my eyes:
For me, and possibly for you, this ceremony is filled with many emotions, like a strange mixture of excitement and anxiety about the future and nostalgia for our past four years here at Oglethorpe. But, though many emotions are associated with graduation, there are two emotions that stand out most to me: pride and gratitude.
Pride almost goes without saying. During our time at Oglethorpe, each one of us pushed ourselves to succeed. Yes, there might have been external pressure from our families or professors, but ultimately, it was each of us, not our family members or professors, that typed each of those sometimes painful core papers about Arsistotle, even if occasionally that paper was hurriedly written at 4 am. The end result was the same: we got the work done well enough for Oglethorpe to recognize our achievement with the diplomas that are about to be in each of our hands, and to me, that is reason enough to feel proud of our accomplishment.
Yet, in addition to our academic accomplishments, we have all shown admirable perseverance in the past four or so years. Though each of us have likely had personal hardships that we had to overcome to get here today, our class specifically is bound together by a collective tribulation. As president Schall already said, there is one petrel missing today. Last year when our classmate and friend, Erik, passed away, a deep sorrow hit our campus. Instead of crumbling under our grief, we preserved because we created a community that is both resilient and compassionate. A community that, during the hard times, let people grieve freely and empathically listened to their pain, and a community that, during the many wonderful times, included everyone–in every Halloween party, every Boxer Rebellion, every Boarās Head, every Stomp the Lawn, and every other moment of celebration on our campus. Receiving our diplomas today symbolizes more than just our dedication to our coursework; it also represents our inner strength and our commitment to our fellow petrels, and that commitment to each other, more than anything else, is why we deserve to feel proud of ourselves.
As we reflect on our personal accomplishments, I think that it is important that we qualify our pride with gratitude for the role that other people had in our success. In the past four years, each of us was helped by someone, whether it was our parents, our friends, our professors, or the guy in Narratives who lent you his notes on the Odyssey that one time. Without the aid of other people, none of us would be here. Though earning our diplomas required hard work from each of us, it was the kindness and selflessness of others that allowed our diligence to pay off. For that reason, I think that today should also be a day to reflect gratefully on all of the people outside and inside our Oglefamily–our peers, our staff members, and our professors– that have selflessly given of themselves, so we could make it to where we are today.
And it is my hope that these two emotions carry with us into the next phase our lives. I hope that the pride of our degree keeps each of us confident in whatever challenges lie ahead of us out of our Oglebubble, as weāve already demonstrated our diligence and sense of community ten times over. And my last hope is that our gratitude prevents our pride from deforming into arrogance, so that we never overestimate our role in our successes at the expense of forgetting othersā contributions. By always staying confident in our abilities while still appreciatively acknowledging the help that we received from others, we will be well on our way to making a life, making a living, and making a difference.
And with that, I hope that you (with an underlined OU) have a wonderful day filled with pride for our diplomas and the community that we created and a day filled with gratitude for all of the wonderful people that made both of those accomplishments a reality. Thank you.